People tell the truth when it's safe.
Anonymity removes the social cost of honesty — that's the entire unlock.

Structured questions + guaranteed anonymity + aggregate-only results = feedback you can actually trust.

HOW IT WORKS

Honest Feedback in Three Steps

Step 1

Get Your Private Link

Sign up free and rate yourself first — so you'll have something to compare their answers against. Then grab your unique, private invite link.

Step 2

Share It With People You Trust

Text it, email it, WhatsApp it — to friends, family, coworkers, your manager. You choose every single person. No contact scraping, no auto-invites, no strangers.

Step 3

See the Honest Patterns

They answer structured, growth-framed questions anonymously. Once enough respond, you see aggregated insights on your private dashboard — strengths, gaps, and one clear focus area.

NOT AN ANONYMOUS Q&A APP

Structured Growth Tool vs. Anonymous Message Boxes

Anonymous message apps (NGL, Tellonym) hand strangers an open text box — and get trolling. This is the opposite: defined questions, invited people, aggregated results, growth framing.

Feature People's Perception Anonymous Q&A Apps
(NGL, Tellonym)
Just Asking Directly
Honest answers Anonymity + structure But unfiltered/trolling Politeness filter
Structured, comparable data Same traits, every reviewer Random text Vague impressions
Protection from abuse Invite-only + growth framing + moderation Open to anyone
Reviewer anonymity protected Threshold + aggregation varies n/a
Turns feedback into a growth plan Focus areas + next steps
FAQ

Anonymous Feedback, Honestly Answered

How can I get anonymous feedback from friends?

Sign up free, get your private invite link, and share it with friends, family, and coworkers. They answer quick, growth-focused questions about you completely anonymously — no account needed on their side — and you see the aggregated patterns on a private dashboard.

Why does feedback need to be anonymous to be honest?

Social politeness is a powerful filter: people soften or skip the truth when their name is attached, because they don't want to hurt you or the relationship. Anonymity removes the social cost of honesty. That's why anonymous structured feedback surfaces things face-to-face conversations never do.

How is this different from NGL or other anonymous apps?

Anonymous Q&A apps are open text boxes — which invites trolling and vague hot takes. People's Perception is structured and growth-framed: invitees answer specific questions about defined traits, results are aggregated with a minimum-response threshold, and everything is framed as focus areas, not insults. It's an instrument, not a message box.

Can the feedback be traced back to who said it?

No. Answers are anonymized with metadata removal, shown only in aggregate, and your results stay locked until enough people respond (typically 3–5) so no individual response can ever be singled out.

Can someone collect feedback about me without my consent?

No. The tool is strictly self-directed: the only profile you can create is your own, and the only people who can answer are people you personally invite. There is no public search and no open submission about anyone.

Is it free?

Yes. Creating your profile, inviting unlimited reviewers, and seeing your perception gap plus top 3 focus areas is free forever, no credit card. Paid plans add the full per-trait breakdown, trends over time, and anonymized themes.